Dear Hodor23
If you met her and found her sincere, would that change my
mind? Well, yes, and no. Remember, it is normal for people to ‘show
their best side’ when in relationships, particularly romantic relationships,
and I know that that is not what we are talking about here, but I offer it as
an example of how people… almost all people… have built up a certain skill
level at projecting a Model Ideal Self.
Typically the Romantic Charades stop at marriage, when the real
personalities show themselves; but when certain persons adopt a Projected
Persona for Business Reasons, often the person realizes very deeply that such a
Persona needs to be maintained. It is too risky to drop the act. Spiritual Groups always wind up breaking up
over ‘insider revelations’, that is, when the Guru or Cult Leader lets down his guard and acts a
bit too casually toward some of the members or devotees. So the best Gurus never let their guard down.
Indeed, I was thinking of writing a Screen
Play about a Fake Guru who finds that one of his followers is the “real deal”
and then becomes very conflicted between maintaining his own personal Empire
and his urge to advance his more deserving protégé, and one of the big turning points
in the screen play would be when the Fake finally lets down his Projected Image
Persona and becomes Real.
Oh, I admire your reaching out to me, so let me tell you a
story from more than 40 years ago. I was
in College and I found this fascinating little New Age Book by a Mr. George
Weed I believe, and it had all sorts of fascinating ideas that were new to me. A friend of mine, a beautiful albino Upper Classman, whom I was showing the
book to, snatched it out of my hands and tossed it in the nearest trash bin,
and told me I must hold myself up to Academic Standards, and advised me to
check out perhaps William James’ “Varieties of Religious Experience”, or to go
back to some of the famous European works on mysticism and spirituality, such as
Saint Teresa of Avila’s “Interior Castle”.
These pivotal works do not go away, and everybody can refer to
them. But these flash in the fire New
Age books that pop up every five minutes, so the latest Pretty Person can go on
Book Tour and run those Seminars, well, they come and go. Five minutes later it is useless to quote
them because everyone has either forgotten or never known the reference. For instance, I went to Amazon and tried to
find a book by my poor old Mr. George Weed, and found that a mere half century
was enough to totally submerge him in oblivion.
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